Signing up for the approach course was a great decision! I had seen Alex’s content on YouTube before, and knew he had been one of Tom Torero’s students. Since I loved Torero’s approach to daygame, the approach course seemed like a great option to learn the London daygame model. I decided to do the course not so much because I didn’t have a dating life, but because I had never done cold approach pick up before. It seemed like a cool challenge, and I believed it could improve the quality of the girls I was getting, and also my social skills. So, as soon as I learned there would be an autumn course in Warsaw during autumn, I contacted Alex and signed up.
The course started on a Thursday, but there was a meet-and-greet with Alex, Tim and some former students the day before. It was nice to meet the guys and hear some cool stories. It got me fired up. On Thursday morning, I was instructed by Tim and Alex on the fundamentals of the London daygame model, and then Tim took me to the streets to approach. The first thing I learned was the front stop. It seems like a trivial task, but there are lots of details. Then we started approaching girls, walking around the central square near the Culture Palace and the streets nearby. Overcoming shyness and approach anxiety is tough, especially when you have to talk in a different language. The first approaches are difficult, I’m not going to lie. However, fast and soft rejections don’t sting as much as one would think. Depending on the case, it can be funny. Something interesting I note is that the first rejections take the weight off your shoulders. One thing that isn’t talked about much about daygame is the fact that there’s a lot of walking. I was feeling exhausted in the afternoon.
On Friday, I met Jon Matrix, which would be my instructor for the day. Jon’s approach is a little different. He’s very objective and straightforward. I was sick in the morning, so Jon offered to meet me in a coffee shop near my hotel. He lectured me on the fundamentals of text game and dating, and gave me really good tips. After lunch, I had the style consultation with Anna, which was really nice. I still wasn’t feeling well, but decided to do the approaches anyway. It paid off, as I was able to run the model successfully on four girls, and got two phone numbers! The first number I got was from a gorgeous blonde girl, probably THE most beautiful girl I’ve ever talked to. The sensation was fantastic!
On Saturday, I was already texting the girls, trying to set up dates. I had two more approach sessions with Tim, and got another phone number from a beautiful Belarussian girl. We also did two two-sets, which was a nice experience. At night, Tim and I met Alex and the other students at a bar and had drinks and shared some stories. I went out with the first two girls the following week, and kissed one of them. Unfortunately, I had to go back to my country… Overall, it was a great experience. Doing daygame is not easy, and you’ll be rejected by most girls you approach. It’s not a magical formula. However, it does work. It is a wonderful feeling you get when you start to arouse attraction in girls. The course and the instructors were fantastic, and I can’t recommend it enough.